reveling in what is.

“Even if I’m setting myself up for failure, I think it’s worth trying to be a mother who delights in who her children are, in their knock-knock jokes and earnest questions. A mother who spends less time obsessing about what will happen, or what has happened, and more time reveling in what is. A mother who doesn’t fret over failings and slights, who realizes her worries and anxieties are just thoughts, the continuous chattering and judgement of a too busy mind. A mother who doesn’t worry so much about being bad or good but just recognizes that she’s both, and neither. A mother who does her best, and for whom that is good enough, even if, in the end, her best turns out to be, simply, not bad. ”

― Ayelet Waldman, Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace

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4 Responses to reveling in what is.

  1. Lottie says:

    I love this quote. i will have to remember it when I become a mother.
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  2. Bridget says:

    Love the quote AND the pictures. He is just so sweet!

  3. Camilla says:

    i am obsessed with his hat. what a sweet little bear.
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  4. Holly says:

    I’m saving this quote for when we have children, it’s perfect.
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